It’s pretty much the penis compass thing. Hey, honesty sucks.

Men are terrible. In fact I’m willing to bet money a lot of dudes were staring at your cleavage during the last 40 seconds of your video. LOL.. in retrospect, dialatedGuy is right…. it’s much harder to be just friends with someone thats attractive, especially if boundary lines aren’t drawn immediately. I still think/know it can work but in your case, you have to tell dude immediately whats up lol

hmmm, this was an interesting video and a good question…just friends eh? hmm well some cases friends that are of the opposite sex usually end up together down the road…in other cases married! i guess it would depend on that person and their personality. i’m friends with some females but it’s not like they call me on the regular and we hang out but when we do, we just kick it…nothing ever intimate.

Well it comes down to INTENT and what stage of life your in. When I was in my 20′s it was all about cookie and ways to get cookie. Posing as a friend was a good way to get cookie. Now that I’m in my 30′s and I’m looking to have a family and wife one day. Female friends are my alleys in my journey. They help me figure out what qualities I want in my life partner. So has the woman in this situation, your job is to figure out a Males “INTENT” , and to “ACCEPT” the person for what they are.

It isn’t that hard, I have many female friends that are just friends and I am not gay…lol. I do make sure they understand that I only want friendship and nothing more and they for that part are the same way. I like friends and people to hang out with and with out the emotional attachment of a relationship. You must make sure that it is friendship that you want up front, especially to men. Now I do admit that most men are only on the hunt and that is why you specify just friends!!

The infinite hell known as friends or friend zone them telling you basically you will never tap that….cries..but I do have some girls who i’m cool with me just friends mainly due to the fact their crazy and insane in all the good ways

u know the term guys are dicks? well now u know

most guys exept alot of ppl u know including me we out of what im about to say they have a tally like yeah i fuck this girl and that girl and many time u know but wow alot i know keep track no lie

Why can’t we be (more than) just friends?

Some ppl r so full of themselves that they think men & women only want to be friends with them bcuz they secretly want them smh..I have many female friends & have always had them & have never thought like that..I have had friends tell me that they fell in love with me but I’d be foolish to think that all of em do – Nuddie

There are some men out there who can push that part of a man’s behavior to the side and truly become friends with a woman, even if he desires more than friendship. I have female friends and I’m attracted to most all of them but I don’t pursue any of them because I have grown very picky about who I spend an intimate evening with. Don’t be insulted if a man wants to hit it on the first night. We all want to, but as we mature, we can also make other choices when meeting a woman for the first time.

it’s a two way problem. They can be. It happens. Even when the guy hears it loud and clear. Sometimes the gal see’s the guy in another light after u get pass the first stage of that friendship. Both are guilty of that. Sometimes us guys start off right & discover something too. What it takes is for both to be adults about it and shake those “wonders” asap. It helps me alot. I have many friends of both genders. Low % of swindles very low.